UNEXPECTED REASON FOR CELEBRATION 

The Lord often uses unconventional avenues to remind me of His love. The Bible, worship, prayer, and connection with other Christians bring steady encouragement, but He also surprises me with unexpected expressions of His care.

Not long ago, one of my favorite treats (Dove Dark Chocolate Promises) served as His means of delivery. I had determined to have only one piece, a single square wrapped in shiny red foil. As I opened it, I discovered these uplifting words: All progress is worth celebrating. 

The timing was no accident. I had been struggling with a disappointing pain episode, following a stretch of gradual improvement. My progress had stalled for no apparent reason, and I was in no mood for celebration.

Then I recalled a physical therapist telling me that even the ability to recover more quickly from setbacks was a good sign. It wasn’t dramatic, but I acknowledged that I had been taking “baby steps” in the right direction. I took a deep breath, then whispered a prayer of thanks. My challenges hadn’t disappeared, yet I sensed a fresh glimmer of hope. 

PAIN CHANGES CELEBRATION

That experience led me to reflect on how chronic pain has altered the broader realm of celebration in my life. Occasions such as birthdays and holidays look much different than those in past years. Conversation in loud group settings quickly triggers my neck and jaw issues, so big parties are no longer an option. Quiet gatherings of four to six people for a brief time are what are workable in this life season.

Since pain drains energy, I have even had to adapt my approach to hosting our immediate family. For example, Thanksgiving, Christmas, or Easter-themed paper plates have replaced china dishware on our table for special occasions. I rarely cook from scratch, opting for simple, pre-made items to create a meal. I also ask for help more readily. I need to save my limited capacity for spending time with loved ones, rather than on clean-up or food preparation. For a while, I felt guilty and disappointed about making these changes, but over time, I’ve learned to embrace them. What matters most is nurturing relationships.

As another Dove chocolate wrapper recently reminded me: Your energy is expensive. Be careful how you spend it.

DISCOVERING A NEW MINDSET

The hardships of chronic illness, pain, and mental illness can tempt us to give up on celebration altogether. Yet Scripture shows that the Lord intends celebration for His glory and our good, regardless of the circumstances. Living a Life of Celebration, a Chronic Joy printable resource, offers meaningful Scripture and quotes to help us practice celebration every day. 

• I will praise you, Lord, with all my heart. I will tell of all the marvelous things you have done. (Psalm 9:1)
• Celebration is … an essential expression of the character of God, a reflection of our Creator in His creation. (Living a Life of Celebration)

We are set free to receive His lavish gifts of joy and delight!

I invite you to join me on this journey of discovery, especially as the holiday season approaches. Another Chronic Joy printable (Celebrate the Little Things) offers additional insights for reshaping our mindset. I anticipate the Lord’s rich blessing as we celebrate His generous goodness!

PRAYER

Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of celebration. You understand how challenging it can be as we deal with chronic illness, pain, and mental illness. Please enable us to experience all You intend, adapting as needed, through Your wisdom and help. We want to rejoice in who You are and what You have done in our lives. In Jesus’ mighty name, amen.

QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION

• How does chronic illness, pain, or mental illness affect celebration in your life?
• What aspects of celebration could you adapt to make it easier and more enjoyable?
• Where in Scripture can you find encouragement related to celebration?